My second wife passed and was a definite keeper. 12 years younger than me. Miss her daily. Divorced my 1st wife and it was amicable, we used the same lawyer and still keep in touch on the holidays.
Tried looking again, what a mistake. never look, let it just happen. There are plenty of gold digging, bat $hit crazy, druggies, alcoholic, lying, lazy, back stabbing, whores out there. I found a couple of those and ran for the hills asap. I have learned that being by myself is fine and comforting. In my line of work, self storage manager, I meet a lot of opportunities and hear all the stories. If you have a good one, work hard to keep her. If you have one that gives you nightmares, do your damndest to kick her to the curb asap.