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"Should've?"
With 3 F's you "should've" done more your work in class and and not been worried about the car or or permit they "should've" offered up on a silver platter.

You have to work harder to fail in public school than you do to slip by unnoticed and average. Pick your priorities so your "should've" is something like "I should have gone to asia on a foreign exchange" and not "I should have passed English so I wouldn't be walking to work at McDonalds."
 
Your parents should have bought you a car four months ago?!

I'll tell you a little bit about how I started working. It started when I was 10 or 11. My grandfather owned a shoe store for all his adult life. When I was 10 or 11 I got to start helping him prep for floor shoe sales. I meant to use the word "got". It was a privilege. It was sort of a right of passage to get to start helping grandpa with his shoe sales. He paid his grandkids well, but you better keep up with him as he was writing out the sale prices on the tags and you came behind and stapled them on and folded them over. As I got older, I spent some time in his shoe store helping him. He didn't really need the help. I'd do little odd jobs for him as well as help customers. The elderly ladies were a chore. They'd come in and try on 13 different pairs of shoes and then not buy anything. I'd have to help them select the shoe, find it in their size, lace it and physically put it on their feet and tie it. They'd not like that pair so I'd get another for them and do the same routine over and over. They were difficult customers. Their feet would maybe be a bit stinky and not exactly a pleasure to work with and they were picky. Looking back, my grandfather didn't need a bit of help from me at his store. He'd just have me help out at the store so he could teach me good work ethic and customer service.

I also mowed his lawn. Again, he'd pay us well, but we (myself, my brother and cousin) had to cut it straight and pick up twigs and trim around the house and trees and such really well. When we didn't, he was disappointed. When I was 14 I started mowing lawns for several people and a business. I couldn't drive so my parents drove me around and dropped me off (or helped as well) and when I was done they'd pick me up. I didn't make a ton of money, but it did add up. I didn't realize then what a sacrifice that was for my parents. They had worked all day and then spent their evenings not relaxing but running me around so I could use their lawn care equipment and make a few bucks and teach me work ethic and discipline. For a while I worked part time at a bank. I pulled weeds and picked up trash for an hour or two each day. Later on I got a job at a grocery store bagging and then moved up to checking. I worked at some stockyards at the same time. Came home covered in elephant dung from cows, pigs and goats every weekend. Then I got a job at a quick lube place. I left there to go to work for Walmart. Every job I worked I gave it my all and was great at it. Within a year of working for Walmart I moved up and was salaried and made good money for a 19 year old kid. Over ten years later I'm still working for Walmart and make great money, have moved up several times and have a great career.

I bought my first car when I was 15. My parents didn't buy it for me. In fact, I paid cash for it. A 15 year old paying cash for a car... I busted my ass. I paid attention, I learned lots, and I was great at everything I did. You need to first excel at school. Get those Fs up. Then think about working. If you want a car, work for it. Don't think you're entitled and your parents should buy you one. Get a job, whatever that job might be and don't be picky. Whether it's mowing lawns, shoveling elephant dung, sacking groceries, stapling shoe tags or whatever. Be the best lawn mower, elephant dung shoveler, grocery sacker or shoe tag stapler you can be. Pay attention, because what you learn at this age will shape you into what you'll be for the rest of your life. That doesn't mean that if you start out sacking groceries that's what you'll do for the rest of your life, but what you learn there will carry over to other jobs and your future career.
 
Admiting a problem is the first step to fixing it.

I got to tell you this. PUBLIC school is a CAKEWALK. A mental defective can pull C's. C's require you show up and breath.

If you need help ask for it. IF YOU cant get it ask again. SORRY TO sound rough.... this is what YOU make of it.

IM done too....dont ask stuff unless your grown enough to heed advice.
 
I basically was DQ'd from school. Was sick most of my junior amd senior years and still passed a few classes. I also got a scholarship to college for music and my act scores. High school is, indeed, super easy to get through. I decided to take a different route than college, to go to tech school and get a more interesting job for myself. Probably took a big possible pay cut, but I mostly enjoy my work.

Point is, if you're physically able to be there and do work, pass, man. I wasn't so lucky, even though I worked hard enough to make the best of it.
 
3 F's?!!! In Po-Dunk public Schools?! I bet it's like your outlook on certain minimum wage jobs...you're not really into that. You're never gonna make the standard requirements to join the military, let alone serve in your predestined Delta Force, as you see yourself. The last thing you need is a job! Get your act together!!! Jesus! Why are you posting this for us?!
 
Zander Pharr said:
Thanks everyone.
I am though trying my hardest to get my F's up to at the least C's, it's hard as all get out since I have 3 of 'em.....
One other reason though for the job is to get a car..... my parents are procrastinating on getting me a car when they should've done it 4 months ago...... plus should've gotten my permit 9 to 10 months ago.....
So I'll probably end up buying the car myself.
I might be able to get a job at Country Mart, some people there say they ought to have more baggers and stockers.
I am trying to work my ass off, I mean, you only live one and not fir that long so I gotta do all I can.
So 3 F's in public school, think your parents and the world owe you something, AND you want to be some delta farce spec ops bad ass(check out OSA for that tidbit). I thought you would have learned your lesson the first time you made a stupid comment on here and OSA.

Like everyone else on here I have worked hard for what I have and it pisses me off when people think there owed something.
Dang Micah beat me to it.
 
Get a job working for the public, learn what assholes they are, and get your ass busy in school to learn about a real job. Some of the best paying jobs over a lifetime don't require a college degree, but do require a lot of votech-military-type education.

Get your grades up, and go to Okmulgee tech to get a 2 year degree in Instrumentation and controls, and you can go to work anywhere in the country for $40 an hour.

Electrician, same deal, not as much pay, but it depends on the electrical craft you want to get into.

Don't want to go to votech? check into the electrical trades. It's Union, and they take on apprentices. Get your apprentice card filled with the required time, take the state test, and you will never be out of work unless you want to be.
 
Dennis... i am a union trained IBEW type. You are correct.

It does take an algebra grade, diploma and apprenticeship testing to get a spot in a construction local. Its competitive. Twisting pipe, electrical calculations, readin writing,contracts all require education.
 
Do you have any specialized skills that people are willing to pay for? If not, you'll have to take what you can get and not be picky. Otherwise you have a hard life ahead of you. Might as well start learning that now.

I learned to fix computers and got paid by my local public school until I got an engineering internship in college. Computers at the school didn't pay very well, but it beat the crap out of building fence and hauling hay, and it looked bad ass on my resume when I did get an internship that paid me more money than I knew what to do with at the time.

No one owes you anything. You owe your parents for feeding you. Be thankful for what you have, and for the love of God, do not flunk anything in high school. If you can find your ass with both hands there's absolutely no reason you can't make straight Cs and everyone you'll ever want a job from knows it.
 
stan686 said:
Oh, I gotta bite my tounge here..........

Another one that thinks they are entitled to something. Nobody owes you anything. If you have it, it's because you've earned it. Ok, I better stop.
Well, it is one of my birthday presents from when I turned 16...... so I'm "entitled" to it.
 
Zander Pharr said:
Well, it is one of my birthday presents from when I turned 16...... so I'm "entitled" to it.
With that mindset, you are destined to go far...

It reminds me of an old quote, "If you have to tell them, is it really worth it?"
 
Look here, I ain't trying to turn this into a pissing contest. I'm just asking what would be a decent job in the city of McAlester, that's all.
Ok, I know my grades ain't so hot, I've been going through a lot, been sick and all the other stuff.
I do ask for A LOT of help from my teachers to get my grades up.
For all that don't think I'd be able to get into Delta, you may be right and then you may be wrong. No one knows. So what I ain't the "whiz kid" and have perfect 100's in school? Even though good grades are good to have to show the military you're smart, it's about the mental and physical abilities you have that makes you Delta, SEAL, Marine Force Recon, etc.
The car was a birthday gift for when I had turned 16, it's just that the money wasn't available at the time.
What I mean by procrastinate is that they don't really push it off and slide in under the rug, I mean that they keep forgetting about it since they have all these bills that new to be paid, and groceries, and all that stuff.
 
There's the world we want to live in and the world we do live in. The world you live in, in this thread, is a pissing contest. And you, you're just trying to find a towel...
 
Zander Pharr said:
Look here, I ain't trying to turn this into a pissing contest. So what I ain't the "whiz kid" and have perfect 100's in school?
Would you like fries with that?
 
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