I've been looking at the xdm, G34 and the m&p lately too. I just put in an order for a g17 though. Go figure. Something you should keep in mind is the current xd rebate. They'll send you an additional 3 mags and another double mag carrier if you buy one. That was almost enough to sway me over to the xdm. It just seemed a little too top heavy for my tastes. YMMV though. And for what it is worth, Mike over at accurate iron (note the AI logo in Jesse's pics) recommends m&p's for a good competition gun. So my point is, just pick one and buy it. Guns hold their value, so you don't lose much if you decide to sell it and get another. BTW, every man should own a 1911.