Right now I'm putting sustainability of my resources at the top of my list. And I include protection as one of my resources.
Water, protection, food, and shelter are my main concerns. We have a mortgage and live in a small suburban neighborhood on 1/3 of an acre that has a city address and county taxes. We're looking into drilling a well, we've planted some fruit bushes and two apple trees this year, we'll see how well the apples do in the lowcountry. I'm working on gardening year round and still figuring out what grows well in our yard and when to plant it. If nothing else I know I can grow beans, peppers, southern peas and greens without too many issues. We added a doberman puppy to our home defenses and we learned how to reload and are expanding our die sets. We allow the kids to help us with the process and we discuss with them this is what we think this caliber is good for, and this one isn't good for X why? type things with them.
They really enjoy helping us prep. We all love the family time, and we include them in as much of our prepping as possible. We put a movie on the laptop and sit around the kitchen table talking and prepping food for the dehydrator or for canning, sorting casings, cleaning guns, etc. Besides keeping them off the video games and building stronger family ties, it's fun and they pick up a lot that we didn't even realize that we were teaching them.
Does anyone else have a defensive plan with ideas on how to make your home more defensible and assigned roles for family members? Now that the kids are older we're revising our strategy and assigning the kids more active roles. I'm not sure how I feel about that yet.